Public speaking is an essential skill, but many professionals hesitate to call themselves public speakers. Why? Because they believe public speaking is only for keynote speakers, TEDx presenters, or people commanding massive audiences.

But here’s the truth: If you speak in front of others—whether in meetings, presentations, or even casual discussions—you’re engaging in public speaking.

The key to becoming a more effective public speaker is to recognize the moments you’re already speaking publicly and to refine your approach for greater impact.

What is Public Speaking, Really?

Many people assume that public speaking only happens on big stages. In reality, it happens every day in countless settings:

• Presenting an idea to your team in a meeting
• Pitching a project to your boss or a client
• Explaining a concept in a classroom or workshop
• Leading a group discussion at an event or conference
• Speaking on a podcast or webinar

Public speaking isn’t about the size of your audience—it’s about effectively conveying your message. Whether you’re talking to five people or five hundred, the principles remain the same.

Common Misconceptions That Hold You Back

Many people shy away from public speaking because of myths that make it seem intimidating. Let’s debunk a few:

1. “Public speaking is only for extroverts.”

Not true! Some of the most powerful speakers are introverts. They succeed by focusing on preparation, structure, and meaningful delivery rather than relying on natural charisma.

2. “You need to be born with the talent to speak well.”

Public speaking is a skill, not a gift. Like any skill, it improves with practice, feedback, and learning the right techniques.

3. “You have to be a polished, perfect speaker.”

Audiences don’t connect with perfection; they connect with authenticity. It’s okay to pause, breathe, and gather your thoughts. What matters is delivering value and engaging your listeners.

How to Embrace Your Role as a Public Speaker

You don’t have to wait for a “big” opportunity to start improving your speaking skills. You’re already speaking—now, it’s time to be intentional about it.

1. Recognize That You’re Already a Public Speaker

Think back to the last time you explained something, led a meeting, or shared an idea in front of a group. Those moments count! Acknowledge that you’re already speaking publicly, and use these opportunities to refine your delivery.

2. Seek Out More Speaking Opportunities

• Volunteer to lead meetings or presentations at work.
• Join a Toastmasters club or participate in a public speaking workshop.
• Start small, but start now. Even informal speaking opportunities build confidence.

3. Focus on Clarity and Connection

Great speakers aren’t just informative; they’re engaging. To improve your public speaking:
✅ Be clear – Get to the point and avoid jargon.
✅ Be concise – Keep your message focused and structured.
✅ Be engaging – Use stories, examples, and pauses to maintain attention.

4. Learn from Feedback and Keep Improving

Ask trusted colleagues or friends for feedback after speaking. What worked? What could be improved? Record yourself and watch for areas of growth. Public speaking is an ongoing journey, not a one-time achievement.

Final Thoughts: Own Your Voice

Public speaking isn’t just about delivering speeches—it’s about how you communicate ideas in all aspects of life. The sooner you embrace your role as a public speaker, the sooner you can refine your skills and increase your impact.

So the next time you’re about to say, “I’m not a public speaker,” stop yourself. You already are one. Now, it’s time to own it.

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This article was originally inspired by a LinkedIn post I wrote. You can read the original version here: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/you-speak-public-speaker-ryan-foland–ucbdc/